Discern and decide what you’re after. Have your own opinion. Take responsibility for your words and actions. Be able to answer the question “What can change the nature of a man?” Get challenged about it and stand your ground. Don’t do all of the above just because someone on the internet said so.
It’s nigh impossible to invent a formal algorithm determining if someone is an adult, yet it is perfectly easy to say if someone isn’t after observing them a bit. People are extremely good at that when they don’t avert their gaze.
There’s not much to say about it, anyway. So, the question.
What can change the nature of a man?
My answer is almost optimistic: anything, but only if there is a burning, or at the very least smoldering desire to change deep in that man’s heart.
Challenge me.